Got Relationships?
| Healthy | Unhealthy |
| Respect | Disrespect |
| Independence | Overly dependent |
| Open communication | Secretiveness |
| Sharing desires and feelings | Deceitfulness |
| Allows personal change and growth | Promotes stagnancy |
| Based on choice | Based on need |
| Encourage self-care | Perfectionist |
| Accepts limitations/flaws | Uses denial and avoidance |
| Partners retain sense of self | Partners lose identity |
| Enhances personal qualities | Brings out the "worst" |
| Appreciation | Selfishness |
| Risks vulnerability | Fears intimacy |
| Trust | Jealousy |